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Not to Us, Not to Us

Posted April 1, 2012

Not to us, O LORD, not to us, but toYour name be the glory, because of your love and faithfulness.  Psalm 115:1

In the last several months especially, I've been blown away by the countless ways that God has shown Himself to me. It's humbling really. There is no other explanation then the love, faithfulness, grace and mercy of God. I can only say like David, not to me, LORD, but to You be the glory. Let me give you just a few examples...

Brandi...she's beginning to talk these days. I can't think of anything that warms my heart more then to hear her trying to say "I love you." and reach out with open arms and puckered lips to give hugs and kisses. And loves digging in the dirt! It is by far her favorite thing to do! That's my girl!

Clara...came out of her room one night about an hour after bedtime with tears rolling down her precious cheeks. She went on to explain that she had done something that she wasn't proud of and she wanted our forgiveness. She knew it was wrong at the time, but she chose to listen to the devil. And now, a couple months later, she knew that God was convicting her heart to confess and repent. She has such a heart for service and loving on others. You might remember that she raised over $1,000 for Rice Bowls last year to feed orphans in Haiti. Over the past CR season, she's loved going to serve the homeless at the NO Mission downtown. Now, she's in the process of fundraising for a mission trip to Honduras this summer. I am awed and humbled at her willingness to be formed by The Potter, and her passion to follow Him at this young age.

Briar...more and more we are getting to have these really good conversations...about life, love, God's Word, the future's uncertainty, his purpose and calling. Part of me twinges at the thought of him being so close to leaving our home, but the greater part of me just glories in how the Lord is working in his heart and mind right now. I have the pleasure of being "mom" to a very witty, very fun, and very thoughtful young man. I pray that he always desires to seek, know and love the Lord as he does now. 

Connor...just thinking about ALL the times in the last month that he's made me laugh...makes me smile and giggle this very moment. He's joined a "real football team" for spring training. They will train through the end of May and then pick up for the regular season in August. Connor is a sensitive young man...always thinking about others. He always wants your input, even if he doesn't use it. And then, he'll apologize for making a different choice. He loves to tell a story. He's very relational, thrives on contact and face time. One morning last week I was in a mad rush to leave the house for a meeting. Ashamedly, I wasn't in a great mood and he was trying to ask me about a dozen questions in the five minutes before I was leaving. I erupted with "NO! And don't ask me again!!". Well, about five minutes down the road I realized that I hurt his feelings (remembering the last look on his face) and was feeling very sorry that the whole thing happened the way that it did. I texted him "I'm sorry. Forgive me?" He answered "Yeah. :)" Even through a text, I could see his smiling face and knew that the slate was clean.

Gosh, that's just with my kids and I haven't even started with Bruce, or Crossroads, or The Gathering, or Camp Hope, or my classes with the kids, or RAD 2012....I'm already at risk of losing you since this post is already too long!  Ha! Well, that'll have to be continued.

Here's my last thought...listen to what David said in Psalm 40:8-10, "I desire to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart. I proclaim righteousness in the great assembly; I do not seal my lips, as you know, O Lord. I do not hide your righteousness in my heart; I speak of your faithfulness and salvation. I do not conceal your love and your truth from the great assembly." 

David wasn't afraid to tell the world about what God had done and was doing in his life. He, King David, wasn't afraid to share his "highs" and "lows", and then to tell how the Lord was using them to His great glory. This presents a few questions...

  • Am I taking the time to recognize what God is doing in my life? Every day?
  • Am I looking for His glory even in the storms? the valleys? the deserts?
  • Am I seeking to learn from all these daily events?
  • Am I allowing others to see God's glory in my life?
  • Am I proclaiming? NOT sealing my lips? speaking of His love faithfulness?

The Gathering to Manage Camp Hope

Posted March 15, 2012

As many of you know, our church community here in Chalmette is The Gathering. Our intention is always to be the Hands and Feet, and, to be obedient to our Lord and Savior in showing our Love to each other and our community.

Recently, The Gathering has agreed to lease a property from the Archdiocese that has been used as an ongoing volunteer housing center. The lease had been held by the Parish government to this point, with a brief stint of time for BP oil after the spill, but as of this week, it will be taken on by The Gathering.

This is an exciting opportunity for us to serve the community by hosting those that are coming to help with a still not fully recovered South Louisiana. The possibilities for ministry here are only limited to What God has Planned. In other words, we'll see what He brings!

This also offers new opportunities for housing with Crossroads short term missions groups. We will be housing and helping run the facility in any way we can. I ask that you partner with us in prayer for guidance, leadership, and patience for God's wisdom and direction. We are currently looking to those that will step into leadership roles in this endeavor.

We have around 1100 scheduled already, not including Crossroads, with I'm sure more to come. Please pray for a smooth transition into what could be a “God Awesome” advancement for the works of His Kingdom!

Peace, Bruce

Way Cool Being A Dad

Posted March 1, 2012

I took a Men's Fraternity class a few years ago, at Northeast Christian, that inspired me to do something special with our boys when they turned thirteen. Shortly following that class Our oldest,Briar, became a teenager and off we went for two days of backpacking in the “evercool” red River Gorge in eastern Kentucky. What a trip... pouring down rain setup of tent on Friday, borrowed tent (no rain fly), improvised rain fly, playing cards while water drips between us, backpacking in Saturday and drying everything out. Slept on the rocks all night with a big blazing fire going and still waking up all wet. Running out of water and hiking out on Sunday as the sun chose to be extremely brilliant that day.

“ Cool Things”.

Flash forward 3 ½ years to southern Louisiana for Connor's 13th. What to do? First off, he had know idea what was coming, we have been extremely busy traveling for a homeschool basketball team Briar is playing on. “ Way Cool”. Embellished a little the fact that we were so busy with Bball that we would have a hard time fitting Connor's birthday activities in.

Poor kid, he has to live with me.... Kept the secret well and on Sunday January 8th woke Conman up, told him to put cruddy clothes on, boots, and pack an extra pair. Briar had been in on this also, so we had packs and gear ready for the adventure. With some hospitality from two different neighbors, we strapped a large canoe to the top of our van and loaded fishing gear and supplies in the van. We were off for a 2 ½ hour drive southeast of Lafayette, La to a canoe-in-only campsite in Cajun Country. “Meaux Cool”.

 

We arrived, loaded our gear in canoe, and headed up a canal for a couple of miles to a small remote lake with one campsite on it, Ours! Did I say cool? Worried about threatening inclement weather, and in La. inclement can mean small Gale, we setup camp and prepared for the worst. Once setup, Connor and I went back out on the lake to fish while Briar got a good fire going.

Weather was holding and we were approaching sunset so we decided to make dinner and go back out after dark As we were eating our ever-delicious dehydrated foods, night had fallen, and we kept hearing large tussles out in the water. Looking to see where the big fish were we donned our headlamps toward the lake in direction of the sounds. Weren't quite seeing the fish but kept seeing red eyes sticking up out of the water, Big Frogs?

We finished our meal and the boys commenced to exploring our small personal peninsula while I lured up rods. About 10 o'clock I asked who was up for a little night fishing. With a little reluctance, but being quite the risk takers, we all piled in the canoe for a little midnight rendezveaux. Being the ever-protecting, and concerned, father I went directly for the spot we had seen the Big Frog eyes sticking up. “ Holy Crikees” those aren't big frogs, them there is gators. We were able to catch a few diving down and rolling into the water to add to the anxiety of the moment. Got a pretty sweet video of Connor. Figuring we were stupid, and lucky, city boys I decide to postpone fishing and get back to camp. “Uncool?”

The weather held out for the entire camping adventure, we canoed out Monday without any teeth marks and headed to Avery Island, home of Tabasco Hot Sauce for a plant tour . Rain cranked up right as we were leaving plant so we headed back toward NOLA for some Birthday Ribs at Texas Roadhouse for Connor. Tired before we left, these trips are worth every bit of energy exerted and aftereffects... I'm coming to that. “Cool Memories”

As for the after-affects part, if anyone ever decides to forgo medical treatment for Poison Sumac and attempt to tough it out with any anti itch lotion known to man, I've got about 3 ½ weeks worth of stories to tell them. Sumac is Evil!

Don't know if there's any spiritual side to this story, just boys havin fun, but it is just one of those things that is “Way cool to being a Dad”.

Love to All!
Peace, Bruce

Just to be Wowed

Posted February 6, 2012


Dear Friends,

This is Bruce saying “Hey” from New Orleans and hoping you have had a Blessed Holiday season and Hope for the New Year. I pray that God has revealed Himself to you in the ways only He can do.

As I move into a new year, new season, and new challenges I am faced with many uncertainties and unknowns. Though these anxieties may be nerve wrecking at times, I can't help but think of the one certainty that has been revealed to me time and time again, especially over the past three years. It is certain that the One True God, whom I serve, Loves me beyond measure!

There, that's it. Simple huh? Yes, it should be. Unfortunately I bottleneck that Love sometimes with all of my finite human actions, thoughts, worries and fears. But like I said, He loves me beyond measure. When all of that Love gets bottlenecked by me, He waits patiently for me to regain focus on Him and what He desires for my life. That is, to be part of His plan and to carry out the day to day tasks He has for me to do. What an Amazing God we serve! What an Amazing God!

So I say all that, to say this. As I head into the New Year I don't have “all” the answers. I have “The” answer. God loves me and He is faithful. He will provide those answers that I need , when I need them. Just in time for me not to mess things up... as is often the case. This is so counter cultural, especially, in todays society of “long-range” planning. We want a definitive plan laid out so we can work and rework it to perfection. Funny huh? He gives us a perfect plan and we want to rework it. As I move further into this adventure in full time missions, I find myself doing something quite often. I intentionally don't look at all the “Overwhelmings” ahead, but I turn and remember all the “Faithfulnesses” in the past. Excuse my sniglets.

What this seems to do is take all the emphasis off the anxieties and put it on the One who deserves my attention in the first place. I can spend quite some time recounting the endless ways in which He has been so faithful to those that are seeking His will. Being in the position that I am I'm also blessed to have other followers to know, and observe, the way God has been faithful to them. These anxieties turn into opportunities to reflect on God's goodness. Amen? So, I begin this New Year looking back at God's faithful goodness.

I also look ahead to the ways God will provide for us. God loves me and will not abandon me. This step of faith that our family has taken has had it's challenges, to say the least. But , these have also been opportunities for God to reveal His mighty power and provision in so many ways. I can't recall all the times in the past three years that I've been overwhelmed with one thought. “Wow”. That's it. Seems simple doesn't it? It is. He is “Wow”. When I've put those unknowns and needs in the trust of the God that loves beyond measure, and that's what I've gotten, Wow!

I have to tell you that the wow factor, so many times, comes in the form of love expressed from you, those that love and care for us. I thank you, and thank God, for your love and support of our service here and in the meeting of our needs. I am truly a blessed man to see that kind of Love and admiration expressed to our family. It's hard to say, but had we not taken that step I don't know that this blessing would have been so revealed. Again, Thank You for your love.

Probably need to wrap this up but it is hard to conclude on such topics as God's faithfulness and provision. Can't keep rambling like I normally do though. If you would pray with me about a few things I would be grateful. Pray that God would continue to reveal His plan for The Dales. Pray for Deb, Briar, Clara, Connor, and even little Brandi, who is such a special “Wow” in herself , that God would keep using each one of their special gifts and talents for the glory of His kingdom. Pray for provision that we can keep doing what we are to do in His name. Pray for safety as we move in and about some challenging areas. And lastly, pray that we stay awake. Stay awake to all that God has done in the past and to all that he has yet to do. Giving Him full Glory and Honor! Peace!

Humbly in the Name of Jesus Christ, His Son,

             Bruce

Crossroads Missions Summer Internships

Posted February 1, 2012

Crossroads Missions Internships

Hey You! Yes YOU!!! Are you atleast 19 years old or done with your freshman year in college???  OR, do you KNOW someone who might fit that description? Then WE NEED YOU!!!

Crossroads Missions New Orleans is now accepting applications for our Summer and Long-Term Internship programs.

The summer program is a great opportunity for individuals to work with a seasoned missions organization. It is a 10-week hands-and-feet-on experience that pays $1,000 (food and lodging included). During the program you will be working with staff to manage all aspects of hosting short-term mission trips.  As with any of our internships, you will learn about leading teams, develop construction skills, work with kids and adults of all ages, and much, much more.

If you are interested, please reply back to this email and we would love to answer any questions you might have,  hook you up with an application AND get you closer to a great adventure!!

 

Here are a few memories from this last year ~


We went to a Help Build Hope Project in Houston, TX where 300 high schoolers built the wall panels for 13 homes for Habitat for Humanity and Haiti.



Friday Night Talent Show!!




We took inner city kids to the Insectarium during
Desire for Change Summer Kids Camp




Praying with the community for Outreach Night in Sampson Park




Game Day with Excite All-star Summer Kids Program



Teaching kids about Jesus at Fun Fridays for Hope Christian Church



Making a gigantic pot of soup for the homeless at the
New Orleans Mission Homeless Shelter




Installing new windows and preparing for new siding on
Miss April's house in St. Roch neighborhood.

Year of Transition, New Beginning Ahead

Posted January 13, 2012

Wow! It's 2012 and almost three years since we moved to New Orleans, Louisiana! It's hard to believe how quickly time has passed and how much we've experienced and been a part of.  We confess, 2011 was a very "quiet year" with our communication. It's no doubt been a blessing to have a new little one in the family, but Lord knows, she keeps us hoppin! So, in nutshell, it's been a big year of transition for us. :)

Here's a spotlight on some of our bigger family events over the last year (Crossroads update will come in a separate post) ~

  • Two high schooler's, one middle schooler, and a newborn...that says a lot right there!
  • For Briar -  "made 16", took drivers ed toward the end of the summer and got his permit in October. Woo hoo! He spent 3 days a week over the summer volunteering at the FUEL Youth Center, and continued to serve on the Youth Advisory Council for the parish and the music team at church. Started on a homeschooler's basketball team in the fall. And is praying about how to serve the Lord after high school.
  • For Clara - "made 14", got to be in the Princess Court for the Irish Italian Islenos Parade, worked a lot with teams at the homeless shelter and on several building projects, and served on the music team at church. She is attending two youth groups right now - one from TG and one from another church in town.
  • For Connor - "made 12", played football for the rec league and made his first touchdown!!! Woo hoo! Worked with Deb a lot over the summer at the Desire for Change Summer Kids Camp, served on the music team at church and made some new friends in the neighborhood.
  • For Brandi - a BIG year for our Lil' Miss! She quickly went from laying, riding along, sitting, crawling, and rolling to standing, walking, climbing, and now scaling!! She is a mess! She has a mouth full of teeth already, loves fruit and veggies, walks outdoors, and chasing the cats. She also has a peculiar fetish with cat fur (she kind of reminds me of that scene in Elf where he's poppin' cottonballs in the doctor's office.) So far she's saying da-da, ma-ma, sis-sis, bu-bu, bu-bee, ap-ple, and goo-girl.
  • For Deb - busy, busy, busy...with being a "new mom" again, schooling the kids, teaching several classes for homeschoolers, on the Teaching Team for The Gathering, helped direct and teach for Desire for Change's Summer Kids Camp, working on a couple different projects for church including the Women's Retreat coming up at the end of January, having various miscellaneous responsibilities for CR, AND managing life and home as we know it!!
  • For Bruce - presently the Field Director for CRNOLA, working with Julie Whiteman (once full-time intern, now permanent Group Care Coordinator - woo hoo!) and beginning the selection process for this year's interns, has spent a good amount of our "off months" working with the Thompson Center (homeless day shelter for men) and several other partners, as well as several "tentmaking" jobs trying to earn some extra income. Bruce is also one of our Elders at The Gathering.
  • For our family - we got to take a week's vacation to Deb's brother's house (and lakehouse) in TX with her family (all to celebrate her parent's 50th Anniversary), took a trip north in November to visit with four different churches we've "made friends with" in KY and IN, got to visit fam while there, got to take a plane ride in a little 4-seater that a pastor-friend of ours flies (THAT was amazing!!)

Praise the Lord! It's been a great year! Although we've had some "downs" with the "ups", the good Lord has indeed been faithful. Here's to a new year! A new beginning! And a fresh new spark to fan into flame.

Flood or Drought? (Summer 2011)

Posted January 12, 2012

We've had a lot of rain the last few days, which we needed. I woke up this morning to thunder, lightning, and a literal river raging down our street. I couldn't even get out of the driveway for a couple hours for fear of being picked up and dumped in the canal!! Well, that's a slight exaggeration, but still, it was a strange feeling...to know that we can't get out the door, while on the other hand, our neighboring state to the west has been in a drought since the spring! I wish we could send some of it to my brother in Texas...they bought a lakehouse  an hour south of Dallas about a year ago. When he looks out his door, the lake is down six feet and he can barely get a jetski out.

Feast or famine...peak or valley...garden or desert...flooding or drought. One thing God has shown me since moving to New Orleans two and a half years ago is that He is faithful no matter what the circumstances in life.

It's always easy to praise Him when things are going well. What's not to love about good times? On the other hand, when we're under pressure, stressed, and experiencing a storm in life, our faith is really put to the test. How will I react in this situation? How will I treat that person that just wronged me? Will I praise God even when the ground I stand on seems like it's crumbling out from under my feet?

What I have to realize is that no matter what my circumstances, flood or drought, God remains faithful. As a matter of fact, if my faith is tested, and I come up short, He STILL remains faithful! (2 Tim 2:13) But this leaves me in a precarious place. Do I remain faithful in all circumstances? Or do I fall apart with doubt, fear and faithlessness? Honestly, I've been there on both counts. When I remain faithful, I am less worried, stressed, depressed and oppressed. I feel His faithfulness, because I believe His promises to be faithful. When I allow my doubts and fears to get the best of me, then it's like I forget all I've learned. I have no peace. And I am a ship sailing aimlessly.

This is one of my favorite scriptures from the Word and one I recite and pray  often..."Let love and faithfulness never leave me; bind them around my neck, write them on the tablet of my heart. And then, (as Your Word promises) I will win favor and a good name in the sight of both God and man. I will trust in You Lord with all my heart and lean  not on my own understanding; but in all my ways acknowledge You, and You will make my paths straight." (Pr 3:3-5)

I pray that God will bind love and faithfulness around my neck each day, as if He were literally fastening a string of lovely pearls there each morning. And I pray that He would write love and faithfulness on my heart, with His finger, just as He etched out the instructions of life in stone for His people in ancient days. May I not forget or ignore them. May I live each day graciously by them. And as I walk the good walk, I pray that my trusting and understanding Him would be fleshed out in each step I take.

Back in the Saddle

Posted May 14, 2011

Okay, it's time to get back on the horse! Brandi is almost 7 months old and I'm feeling reeeeeally guilty about neglecting our blog. Somehow, having an infant around the house can change everyone's schedule -- not just mommys. :) My prayer lately is just that the Lord will help me to be more disciplined, and that His order would reign my day.  I'm also challenging all my "troops" to start contributing to the blog. So, in the weeks to come, I hope to be back to sharing more about our lives here in New Orleans. There is no doubt that the last two years have been quite a journey for all of us. New home. New friends. New baby. New things happening at Crossroads. We really do have a lot to talk and write about.

So, stay tuned. The trail has not gone dead, so to speak. We are still here, living life for Jesus, finding all kinds of ways to serve Him, and trying to share His love with everyone we meet.

Thanks for hanging in there with us!

Holiday Travel Plans

Posted December 15, 2010

We spent two weeks traveling for Thanksgiving ... hit Murray, KY, Louisville, Lexington for the National Missionaries Convention, Holly, MI to visit Bruce's sis and bro-in-law, Pierson, MI to spend time with Deb's fam for a week, then back down through Louisville for a night before heading home to NOLA.

For Christmas, we'll be on the road again for the eleven hour drive to Louisville next Tuesday the 21st, where we'll spend the week with Bruce's family.  We're looking forward to Christmas Eve service at Northeast!!! Can't wait to see everyone!

Then back down to NOLA AGAIN for a New Year's Eve with friends here. What fun!!

Video Made by Intern Tim Bradburn

Posted September 29, 2010

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